o Check that all children are safe and that it’s safe for you to take a time out (baby on crib,
children inside the house, nothing on the stove, etc)
o Go to the bathroom and close the door
o Go to a room and close the door
o Step out to the backyard o Just take a time out alone
How do young children learn self-control, self-help, ways to get along with others, and family and school procedures? Such learning occurs when parents and teachers of infants, toddlers, or preschoolers are continuously involved in setting limits, encouraging desired behaviors, and making decisions about managing children.
When making these decisions, caregivers often ask themselves these questions: Am I disciplining in a way that hurts or helps this child's self-esteem? Will my discipline help the child develop self-control? The following tips suggest methods and language that can be used in handling common situations involving young children
►Need a dipper change (change their diaper)
►They want their pacifier (sometimes you have to try several times to get them to latch on)
►They are hungry (feed them)-if they don’t take the bottle don’t force it.
►They need to burp (pat their back softly)-this is a real common one!! Be patient, walk around while burping them to calm yourself and the baby down.
►They are hot/cold (make sure they are dressed according to the ambient temperature)
►They have colic (this is also common with babies, ask the pediatrician for remedies)
►They want to be held (sometimes babies just want love. Hold them or walk around with them)
►Something else hurts them (if they cry non-stop no matter what you do please take them to seek medical attention either pediatrician or emergency room) Some pediatricians offices have after hours numbers to speak to nurses for advice on medical issues-call them and see if they can assist.
Even the seasoned parent needs a little help dealing with common parenting issues. We've compiled a great list of tips and advice for all those challenging situations, plus a great list of places you can turn to for help and support.
Situation and How Positively Handle them Sometimes our tolerance levels are not what they normally are. We all encounter situations such as these but maybe at the time don’t know how to handle them effectively. Take a look at these scenarios.
This is a big issue especially for new parents. Babies communicate with us through crying. They are not doing it to get you mad or annoy you. Some reasons why babies cry – check and eliminate one by one:
Instead of trying to solve the issues between siblings at a time where you may not be mentally ready, send each child to a different room in the house so the fighting, bickering, tattle telling stops. The children will calm down, you’ll get some peace and quiet and you will be able to address the issue at a later time when you are ready to. If your children are not listening to you and you feel like you are on the verge of “exploding”, send them to their room and find a quiet place to have some “me” time.
Please read “be slow to get angry” section below for the solution.
LOCAL (EL PASO COUNTY, TEXAS)
Child Crisis Center of El Paso - Services may include critical need for parental stress relief, parent/sibling hospitalization, an incarcerated parent, a parent being admitted into an alcohol/drug rehabilitation program, homelessness, deportation, a temporary Child Protective Placement (CPS), and/or utilities disconnect). We offer families the support needed to stabilize their immediate situation, as well as their lives as a whole to prevent the situation from occurring again.
Avance - Parent-Child Education Program Model consists of weekly three hour classes that span the school calendar of September to May, early childhood education for the children of the adult participants, home visits, transportation to and from program services, advocacy and support, and special events and holiday celebrations.
Paso Del Norte Children's Development Center - Incredible Year's Parenting Classes is a program aimed at preventing the development of child problem behaviors and promoting children's social and academic successes. They help parents build a strong and positive relationship with their children through praise and positive reinforcements.
Family Advocacy Program (Ft. Bliss) - The Army Family Advocacy Program coordinates and provides numerous programs, services and activities that support our families. Our goal is to develop parenting skills and knowledge, reduce stressors that may increase the risk of child abuse or neglect. And help families cope with the adjustments, changes of military life.
Center for Effective Parenting Provides helpful parenting information and tips.
Child Care Aware Committed to helping parents find the best information on locating quality child care and child care resources in their community.
KIDS COUNT Data Book Project by the Annie E. Casey Foundation to track status of children in the United States.
NetSmartz Interactive, educational safety resource that teaches kids and teens how to stay safer on the Internet.
Circle of Parents Network of parent-led self-help groups where parents and caregivers can share ideas, celebrate successes, and address the challenges surrounding parenting.
Focus Adolescent Services Resources on Teen and Family Issues. Topics include anger, violence, self injury such as carving, branding and marking, and abuse.
Teen’s Health Created by The Nemours Foundation’s Center for Children’s Health Media, Teens Health provides teens and families with up-to-date, jargon-free advice about health, relationships, and growing up. Topics include issues such as depression and self-cutting, abuse in the family, and safety basics such as Internet safety.
Family and Marriage Counseling Directory Articles, resources, and databases for finding family and marriage counselors.
Parents Anonymous The nation’s oldest for information on child abuse prevention
It takes time, readiness, and practice for children to learn to follow rules just as it does for them to learn physical skills, such as walking, or social skills, such as sharing. Learn more about typical behavior for your child's age. Try to let them know that you are the leader and that you are there to help them grow.